Thanks for writing this great reminder. Last year, when my son was 3, he had no meltdowns for all of Christmas Day. At the time, my husband said "Wow, he actually did really good today." I gulped. I knew what was coming the next day. Sure enough, on boxing day he was a complete and utter mess of meltdowns. I think it's because of all the excitement of Christmas Day and he had no opportunity to release it. Once we were home on boxing day, it all came out at once. Don't recommend lol. This year was much better because I built in some time for Christmas day where he could wind down and let out some feelings if necessary.
Such a great reminder and confirmed my instincts on implementing some loose routines/structure for these holiday breaks. This is the first extended break my 5.5 year old has had because prior to this year (he's in K) he was in daycare where they didn't close nearly as long as his public school. I realized after the very first day off that we needed some sort of routine AND that he thrives, sleeps better and is better behaved with time outside. So one of our routines is to do at least one thing outdoors each day if at all possible (almost no bad weather, just bad clothing choices mindset) and it makes such a huge difference.
Thanks so much. This really helps soothe this caregiving grandma’s heart.
So glad it was helpful!
Thanks for writing this great reminder. Last year, when my son was 3, he had no meltdowns for all of Christmas Day. At the time, my husband said "Wow, he actually did really good today." I gulped. I knew what was coming the next day. Sure enough, on boxing day he was a complete and utter mess of meltdowns. I think it's because of all the excitement of Christmas Day and he had no opportunity to release it. Once we were home on boxing day, it all came out at once. Don't recommend lol. This year was much better because I built in some time for Christmas day where he could wind down and let out some feelings if necessary.
Very wise planning there!!
Such a great reminder and confirmed my instincts on implementing some loose routines/structure for these holiday breaks. This is the first extended break my 5.5 year old has had because prior to this year (he's in K) he was in daycare where they didn't close nearly as long as his public school. I realized after the very first day off that we needed some sort of routine AND that he thrives, sleeps better and is better behaved with time outside. So one of our routines is to do at least one thing outdoors each day if at all possible (almost no bad weather, just bad clothing choices mindset) and it makes such a huge difference.