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Blue's avatar

My husband and I took our kids to the amusement park recently and we tried a ride which according to Wikipedia is called the "rock-o-plane" - it's like a ferris wheel but you're in a little cage so you can rock around and even flip if you get up enough momentum. My husband was with my nine year old in one cage and they had a ton of fun rocking around... I was with my five year old who decided they did not want to rock, so my job was to rock myself around as a counterweight to keep the cage steady. It took a lot of effort and gave me weird sensations, but I stabilized the cage throughout the ride! Anyway sometimes that's what September feels like as kids go through all these emotional transitions. We have to move and adjust and absorb and stabilize, and the end result looks like not much is happening at all. Phew!

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I tend not to do well in September. I have fall anxiety even though it is my favorite season. There are myriad reasons for the anxiety- unresolved feelings of stress from when I worked as an elementary school counselor 2014-2016 so I associate fall with feeling uncertain and overwhelmed; my body remembers the feelings of anxiety from my first miscarriage which occurred in September of 2015; the transitions of those around me (namely my sister and nephews) somewhat affect me because I am her primary sounding board and best friend so if her boys are having a tough time with transition I also feel that anxiety.

My niece just had a baby and we are trying to buy a house for her/her baby and her mom and my mother-in-law to live in (and pay us discounted rent) so that my niece doesn’t have to continue to live with my father-in-law due to financial strain (my father-in-law is not a super supportive family member so ideally she would be in our neighborhood since there are multiple houses for sale). And finally, election stress affects me because my husband supports Trump and I support Kamala, so while we have been mostly civil, election season and having more discussions of our beliefs cause more anxiety.

There’s a lot going on so I am not sleeping well, and the way I am coping is by doing my Swiftie dance parties in the AM and trying to dance it out like Meredith and Cristina on Grey’s Anatomy. It is definitely making me feel better!

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